Making decisions is taxing. It's like a muscle. At a point, you get tired and will make bad decisions. Hence, the value of morning routines, or Steve Jobs' famous everyday jeans and black turtle neck outfit. Set it and forget it.
Make hard decision when you're fresh, before the actual stressful moment. And hold yourself to that decision. It's been made. Don't get tempted in the moment. Making the over and over again only compounds the difficulty.
Don't decide on your max price during the bid for a house. Decide that you'll do a cold shower before you get in it and turn the knob while on auto-pilot. Think and set a process for handling client requests and proposals. Doing everything on the fly is an ineffective use of your attention.
And, pick a strategy to pursue for a set number of months and don't get swayed during that period. The doubt is a waste of time and energy and will sabotage your execution!
When we don't understand something, we call it magic. When you know how the magician does his trick, it suddenly looses its appeal.
When an athlete, singer or musician do their "trick", we call it talent. Something innate. They have something we don't. How much they actually trained is unfathomable. So, that can't possibly be it. Or is it that it's simply hard to believe.
Similarly for entrepreneurship, creative skills or success. They didn't develop it in a snap. Their succes didn't happen overnight. It's an endless cycles of practice, improvement and adding value. Starting small, clumsy and with experiments.
Doing so will teach you two vital things. A) You'll realise through experience, that you can learn something when you put your mind to it. B) That you can follow through on a commitment when it's slightly too hard.
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